Happy Wise Word Wednesday everyone!
Today, we dive into the second part of, The Love Detox. After you find stability within yourself and learn to love yourself each and everyday, you have to get clear on what is important to you so that you can approach love successfully.
“Know thyself.”- Socrates
A friend of mine broke off a relationship of 6 years because she failed to acknowledge how important building a family was for her. Even after the guy expressed his lack of interest in building a family, she still stuck around. If she would’ve been clear on her desires she would’ve seen that this man, great and all, was not the one for her. She would have saved 6 years of a relationship that wasn’t right for her, and could’ve used that time to find a man that shared her same desires.
A successful relationship isn’t about two perfect people coming together, it’s about two people who share the same desires coming together and expanding in love.
If you don’t know who you are (your values, and core principles) and what you desire, how do you know if the person that is with you is the right one for you?
A “real” relationship is built on communication, so you have to be clear on the things that you want and don’t want, so that you can communicate it with your partner from the beginning. This way no one wastes anyone’s time, and love becomes so much more simple and fun!
Watch my Wise Words Wednesday video below. I dive into the second part of THE LOVE DETOX: Know yourself and your desires.
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