“Love does not claim possession, but gives freedom.” -Rabindranath Tagore
You just woke up and instead of focusing on your morning ritual to get yourself centered you begin to scream and shout at your man demanding to know why he came home 2 hours late from this friends house last night. In order to avoid a fight he lies to you and makes up his usual “BS story”. You, being the intuitive women you are, sense his insincerity and start screaming even louder. At this point you haven’t even begun your day and your blood pressure is already at its highest level. You start to lose control of your center, poise, and class because now you realized he is disconnected and has shut off.
If this sounds like something you deal with on a daily basis, you are not alone. This is the typical communication skill of a woman all wrapped up in emotional instability and anger. What if I told you that it’s this same style of communication that keeps your man lying to you day after day.
The Key To Honesty
I want you to realize that if you changed the way you expressed your ideas and emotions to a more centered and relaxed way, you can reintroduce honesty and sincerity into your relationship. Your man will open up to you again! The key to an honest trustworthy relationship is GREAT COMMUNICATION skills.
Don’t Fight Over Your Ideas Share Them
One of the secrets to being a great communicator is to have emotional stability. If you are always “PMSing” then you will bring baggage into all your conversations and fight for your ideas instead of sharing your ideas. The key to emotional stability is being emotionally intelligent. You can learn this skill by reading a book on the topic or taking a seminar. It is important to dominate your emotions so that you speak from a place of truth and real power rather than a place of insecurity, doubt and fear.
In today’s episode I speak about the reasoning behind a lying man and how we can recalibrate back into a loving harmonious relationship… Living lightly ever after.
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